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Short: Two Universal Perspectives

by David Hadwin
2 min read

I love this practice in Christianity, of sharing your sins; of sharing your struggles. The practice of shedding light on the parts of you that wish to remain hidden in a space with others that have shared those struggles. My favorite part, though this seems to be forgotten by mainstream anyone, is the beautiful space that's provided and held by the others for you to intimately reveal yourself. It's not met with judgement, but compassion, and even more often, solidarity. They too have felt those pains, those fears, those temptations and those struggles. You are not alone, and those parts of you, when brought to light, no longer can hold power over you.

Pair that with another favorite one of Christian beliefs, that God loves you. In all of that shame, and all of that guilt, God still loves you. In all of your failures, and all of your sin, God still loves you. There is nothing you can do to make that false. The only thing you can do is try to run away from it...but, however far away you are, or get, God will still receive you with open arms, just like the story of the prodigal son.

...there only exist two thrones in the universe. The throne of Christ; meaning connection to source, oneness, and light. And the throne of the Ego; meaning isolation, separation, and darkness.

But if we're honest with ourselves, it's usually our shame, and our guilt that keeps us from coming back to God or bringing things to light. We ask ourselves, who am I to be loved, forgiven, and accepted? "How could I be loved when I've done...[fill in the blank]."

I heard this absolute gem the other day from a famous Christian mystic preacher: That there only exist two thrones in the universe. The throne of Christ; meaning connection to source, oneness, and light. And the throne of the Ego; meaning isolation, separation, and darkness. He said, with these two perspectives being the only two perspectives in the universe, if you notice your ego in a moment of not being your highest self, the only way that you could perceive your ego is if you were seated in the other seat, the other perspective. And that the lie that we tell ourselves is that we associate with the behavior that we've witnessed ourselves doing and in our shame, and guilt return to sitting on the throne of the Ego, of darkness, shame, and isolation. "You're such a terrible person." we tell ourselves...

Instead, if we remember that the only way we can be witnessing our own darkness is if we already are seated in the light.

Instead, if we remember that the only way we can be witnessing our own darkness is if we already are seated in the light. And if we forgive ourselves for our darkness we are able to remain in the light. It's not just others that need forgiveness...you do too.

So make it easier to bring light to your struggles and failures by remembering this. By yourself, or with God, or with others, shed light on your darkest parts, and forgive them, for they are not you, nor you them. You are loved, you are kind, and you are a light, so shine like you were meant to. Bless everyone that crosses your path, and in the moments that you don't...forgive yourself.

Short: Constriction is Fear

by David Hadwin
2 min read

As I’ve been aging, my body has been teaching me more and more. I used to think that when I was tight, I should stretch. That’s what we’ve been told—that’s what everyone’s been told. But then I ran across this gem: your muscles tighten when your body thinks they are too weak for the demand you’re putting on them.

Your muscles tighten when your body thinks they are too weak for the demand you're putting on them.

Another telltale sign came from understanding what happens to muscles when you die. Two very significant things happen: you become instantly hyper-flexible (called primary flaccidity), and after your ATP (the energy currency of cells) depletes, rigor mortis sets in, making your muscles contract. It surprisingly takes more ATP to relax than to constrict.

The answer isn’t stretching; the answer is strength and movement. Flexibility comes from strength under load. You need to work out those constricted muscles. You need to build up their confidence. Victory after victory, they learn their capabilities. You aren’t actually stiff—your brain just doesn’t trust you. To protect you, it contracts for fear of being hurt…

To protect you, it contracts for fear of being hurt...

Hmm… you say, that sounds mighty familiar. The parallels to our emotional state are uncanny. You fear, distrust, and constrict your actions—your love, your heart, your soul—because you don’t believe you’re strong enough to handle the pain, the hurt, the lies, or, as Shakespeare put it, “the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune.” But just like your body in total surrender, total relaxation, there is no pain unless you’re fighting the action.

But just like your body in total surrender, total relaxation, there is no pain unless you're fighting the action.

I’ve been inspired merely by the title of a book, Becoming a Supple Leopard, though I haven’t read it. However, that single thought—that single image—has guided my learnings about pain and resistance. What does it mean to be supple, physically, emotionally… spiritually?

In my mind, the word supple brings imagery of a finger poking skin and everything giving way—like a masseuse working muscles with zero tightness. No pain, no fear; a meek confidence. Paired with the image of a leopard, it brings forth ideas of strength, grace, and unobstructed movement. I think to myself: that’s what I’d like to become—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Short: Harmonizing Better Together

by David Hadwin
1 min read

A friend of mine once turned me onto an interesting phenomenon; when humans sing together, the sounds that are in tune constructively interfere, while the sounds that are out of tune destructively interfere. You've probably noticed it before, how a crowd always sounds good. That crowd, however, is usually made up of a range of singers, even some that sing completely off key, yet, as a whole, the crowd has a wonderful voice.

You've probably noticed it before, how a crowd always sounds good

Just like in singing, all that we do, the companies, teams, or communities we build are made up of people who in some areas of life are "in tune" and other areas, not so much. When these people rub shoulders, and collaborate with each other, together, we always have a chance to be better than we are individually...but we need a "song" to attempt to follow. We need some organizing principles that we're individually, and collectively striving towards. Within those organizing principles, we need to have the conviction to speak our minds (whether we are right or wrong) and the humility to accept correction from our group. Not just from any group, but from our group, filled with the people trying their very best to follow the same tune.

This is the blessing and curse of community. In a church, team, or community that's aligned with our song...we are sped towards our destinies, stripped of those notes that aren't in tune (missing the mark). But in a community not aligned with your song...you get drowned out, lost, isolated. Your voice can be jarring. The pressure to lose yourself can be overwhelming...but don't give in...

Find, instead, the people singing your song and join them, at the top of your voice. In the same way that you need them, they need you, and together, you'll sing something beautiful!

Short: Chaos is Good

by David Hadwin
1 min read

Imagine you're in the middle of a storm, winds wailing around you so close that you can't see but 5ft in front of you. That's sometimes how our lives feel, we try to fix that by scheduling, controlling, and knowing what's ahead. We do that by planning. We try to plan how to get to what we want, and sometimes, that's great, but we also very often have limited imaginations and our stability keeps us in a mediocre life.

Do you know how a virus assembles in a cell? It makes each component of the virus separately, and they all just jiggle around the cell until they form together since each section is chemically attracted to the next. Out of the chaos, comes form.

Instead of looking at the storm as bad, imagine that instead it's building a path for you. If the winds weren't blowing, you'd know exactly what was in that direction...and it might be lacking. But as the winds blow, the stronger the winds blow, the more possibilities exist, the more chances there are for that direction that didn't even exist objectively before.

So, enjoy the storm, take this as a moment to reflect on what you want the storm to create for you, meditate on what your heart is calling for. Remember, the universe is on your side. Trust that, know that, and when the time is right, walk bravely in that direction.

Short: Knowledge and Separation

by David Hadwin
2 min read

To know something, you need to separate it. To know you, I need to separate you from the crowd. It requires focus, and focus blinds us to everything else. Our left brain is known for naming, logicizing and understanding the world, but it does that through the act of separating it into pieces. Our whole existence has been built on that...

Genesis 2:16-17
"And the Lord God commanded the man, saying, 'You may surely eat of every tree of the garden, but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die.

Yet there exists another path, the path of connection, the path of being part of this co-creative dance that happens all around us. Not needing to understand it, not seeking to control it, but seeking its rhythm, its pace. This is the way of the right brain. It's a way of letting us feel the heartbeat of the universe. This is the way of plants, trees, animals and insects. Feeling, sensing, and acting.

Belying each of those worlds exists a gift that can be claimed for whomever wishes. On one hand, control, power, knowledge, and on the other, peace, surrender, guidance. Neither world is better or worse, they both exist within us. In every moment both worlds are active, it only matters which one we play with; which one serves our purpose.

I believe our culture has denigrated the right brain for far too long, and as it has atrophied, our world has suffered. We were made to carry these two worlds for a reason, we were made to control and know...while being connected and in flow.

On one hand you had the Native Americans, who lived with the land and helped it thrive. On the other Europeans who dominated it and discovered new technologies. One was filled with health, and spiritual abundance but lacked "material wealth" the other built on the backs of a sickly cast of workers utilizing nature for their masters means.

One had power. One had life.

Yang and Yin. Yin and Yang.

As cycles go, if Yang won out before and led to our technological boon a the expense of our connection to nature; to the universe; to God. I have a nagging suspicion that it will also lead us back full circle to living again with nature; back in the connection that gave us life...back in the arms of the Divine.

Short: The Universe is On Your Side

by David Hadwin
1 min read

The entirety of everything that exists co-creates the very next moment. It creates that future based on the essence, desires and needs of each individual member and all members collectively. When it does that, that future becomes stable, when one member doesn’t express their needs or desires, or what they truly are, the future that is created is not as stable.

You, with your story, gifts, skills, connections, and relationships, have a certain you that no one else can fill. You are a puzzle piece within the greater puzzle of the emerging future.

Because the emerging future needs you to complete the stable puzzle, the rest of the puzzle is actively pulling you into place. It’s actively trying to bring out your true being, to provide for your true needs, and to fulfill your true desires, because a puzzle based on that is a puzzle that’s not changing.

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Short: You Can Never Love What You Fear

by David Hadwin
1 min read

To love something, you have to understand it, be around it, have a relationship with it. We fear things because we don’t understand them. When we fear, we don’t see, we run; we don’t listen we defend; we don’t ask, we assume.

Fear has been the cause of countless atrocities, like racism, segregation, genocides. When individuals have the courage to reach across the aisle, tracks, borders and meet a fellow human being, friendships develop, wounds are mended, nations are healed. Our minds were meant to be just as open as our hearts.

When we allow a crack to form in the programs we’ve carried with us our whole lives, we step away from stereotyping people based on their gender, skin color, or religion and start to see them as individuals. We see them based on their likes and dislikes, strengths and gifts, kindnesses given and kindnesses returned.

For example, Daryl Davis, a black man, built a friendship with a leader of the KKK And over the course of 10yrs, by practicing patience, kindness, and grace, turned his heart against the ideology where he not only left, but publicly denounced his previous beliefs and acknowledged Daryl as a friend. Daryl has since helped many members leave and stands as a testament to the power of connection.

What are you afraid of? What are you not allowing yourself the possibility of understanding? Where is your mind and your heart closed?

Maybe it’s time to open up?…

Short: Why is the World So Broken?

by David Hadwin
1 min read

Simply put, because you aren’t courageous enough to stand for what you believe in. We aren’t courageous enough. We, collectively, have decided to sell ourselves for money, prestige, food, shelter, security, and comfort.

Once we have the courage to stand for what we each believe in, individually, the world, our customs, our traditions will accommodate. Companies will no longer lie, steal, cheat. Politicians and governments will no longer be corrupt. Food will no longer contain additives that are harmful or be grown with agricultural practices that destroy our world. We have allowed all that to happen for fear of death, pain, poverty, and/or humiliation.

Nurture the strength and courage to say what needs to be said, to do what needs to be done; to go against the grain. It starts with small every day things, in small every day moments. It starts with listening to that internal guidance system. As you gain and exhibit that courage, you make it easier for others.

So go! Let your light shine! On the highest of mountains and lowest of valleys...wherever darkness is, let it shine.

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